• USC will be holding the Give It Up For Good yard sale on May 24th from 8-1 at the Greene St. Intramural Field.

  • Come out to support I AM WE at the Black Out Bullying bowling night at Anchor Lanes on May 9 from 6-8.

  • Congratulations to Aaron Martin and Emily Franklin for being awarded outstanding soloist!

  • Jostens will be on campus for the last time on Wednesday April 30 from 11 to 1. Any balance must be paid to pick up orders.

  • Don't miss out on the last Choir concert of the year on May 1st at 7:30 at Chapin Presbyterian Church

  • Junk to Funk will be held on April 24th in the old gym at 6:30 tickets are $5. Make sure to come out and support the CHS arts

  • Congratulations to Shaleighya Sulton for setting the new shot put record of 42 ft at the girls track meet.

  • Congratulations to Morgan Weaver for setting the new school record for the long jump of 15ft!

  • The Cape Strong Memorial Fund will be selling t-shirts and wrist bands at lunches on April 21-22 proceeds go to Mr. and Mrs. Capers.

  • Prom will be held on May 3rd at 8PM at the Columbia Conference Center. Tickets can be ordered in room 202 until April 23rd.

  • Congratulations to the Girl's Track Team for finishing first over all in their first meet against Batesburg, Ninety Six, and Airport!

  • Congratulations to Mckenzie Walpole for winning Miss Chapin!

  • Congratulations to the Junior Varsity Guard for receiving 2nd place in the Novice Classification!

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Bullying Leaves Scars

I’m sure everyone who’s gone through school has heard the whole “don’t bully” or “stop bullying” speech.  We’ve heard the classic “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.”  And we’ve certainly been taught the Golden Rule: treat others as you would like to be treated.  Yet some people still haven’t seemed to grasp the concept and tend to treat people in a very negative way. 

Growing up can be difficult, especially when you’re going through high school and still trying to find out who you are and want to become.  It doesn’t help when you’re constantly picked on and struggle to fit in with your peers.  People are often judged and made fun of when others view them as “different” or “weird.”  Some are frequently harassed–whether verbally or physically– and even begin to look down on themselves.  They hear from others everyday that they’re ugly or weird, and soon start to view themselves that way. 

Imagine what it’s like to be bullied on a day-to-day basis. You walk into school every morning anxious to leave, though the morning has just begun.  As soon as you walk through the doors, you’re greeted with nasty looks from surrounding students and a few begin shouting demeaning names at you. “Fatty!” they call.  “She’s so gross,” you hear them say.  You feel your face becoming hot and the burning sting of tears developing in your eyes.  You won’t look them in the face, hoping they won’t see your pain, not wanting to give them the satisfaction in knowing they’ve won.  You want to yell back at them, tell them to stop hurting you, to finally give you a break; but, instead you continue down the hall, head bowed, feeling smaller than an ant.  Every day after school you go home and cry. You look in the mirror and don’t like what you see.  You begin to hate yourself and wish you could be somebody else; wish you could do something to stop the pain and the relentless harassment.  But instead you choose to keep it all inside, to suffer in silence.

There really are people in the world who suffer from bullying in situations like this, and it is guaranteed that there have been students CHS who have been teased and picked on.  I am one hundred percent sure that many students at this school have bullied another at one point in their life.  In high school—and even life in general—we have this mindset that someone who is different from us or what we view as the norm is weird and is not to be accepted.  We judge people off of everything: their clothes, their looks, their attitude, how much money they do or do not have, their personality, etc.  Psychologists have even proved in a recent study that the average human judges a person upon meeting them and has a set opinion of that person within just seven seconds.  Seven seconds certainly isn’t enough time to get to know someone, and you definitely shouldn’t have your mind made up about them within that short amount of time.  We are supposed to get to know someone before we go off judging them; too often we forget that we shouldn’t judge a book by its cover.  We also forget how hurtful our judgments and harsh words can be.

Do you want to be the person that makes someone cry?  The reason for a person’s low self esteem?  Judging a person does not define who they are, but rather it defines who you are.  So who are you?


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